Love is patient and kind;
Love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude.
Love does not insist on it's own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong,
but rejoices in the right.
Love bears all things
endures all things,
Love never ends ; ...
- 1st corinthians 13:4-8

I just thought this rant would be incomplete without those versus,and to those of you who've already heard that a million times and skipped to this part... I don't really blame you.
what is love? .Ok, so the post above pretty much answers that...although we know it's true it sounds a little far fetched.I looked around a lot and thought about it ...who hasn't ?we all know love isn't love if it's hate.ok i know that sounds wack.But it's what the first 7 lines of the above lines talk about anyway. And then after all that if you still like the person ,flaws and all,and bear it ...with little or no complaints... it means u love that person,right? Sure. True friendship is love. Isn't that what " love " is all about?Going out of your way for someone inspite of yourself.Liking them even more than yourself sometimes...LOVE ... lOvE. LoVe. it's a weird word. some people love it and some despise it. But when and why do u decide to like that special someone?. the word love has taken so many twists over history .

Let's see what wikipedia has to say about this :

Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection^[1] and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my boyfriend"). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

ok so we're talking about the feeling or emotion love here ..

Even after all this time

The sun never says to the earth, "You owe me."

Look what happens with a Love like that!

—It lights the whole Sky. (Hafiz)

:D.I guess i understand most of love now ... atleast how enfuring it is,when it's true anyway.
but the last line

"Love never ends ; ..." is kind of ..uhm different? ...if it's never-ending then what about all those marriages that go down the drain and end up in divorce.So it's obivous their love isn't true then ? or was it earlier,but not just then.But then it isn't love.Confusing isn't it? yea i thought so too.sort of... i guess people don't think of love that way these days ... maybe some people do :)


there, i like this...ranting stuff :D maybe i'll continue later with a different topic,or a part 2 of this one ... but some other time when i have more time :)

xoxoxox
with loads of love
me <3>